Caregiving With Less Stress – Shopping and Shipping Online

We are approaching the bad weather season, and the busy shopping season and for me the stressful – “how will I get it all done?” season.  I have a system that helps me get more things done without having to go out in bad weather.

First, most people have already tried shopping online.  Maybe you do it once in awhile, or maybe it is something you do regularly.  I admit that I have been shopping online for a long time, but lately I order more and more items that I used to just run to the store to pick up.  Most of the websites I shop with offer free shipping all the time or with a purchase of $25 or more.  I save my items until I need $25 worth before placing my order.

Dad doesn’t like to go out to try on clothes.  I can purchase for him locally or online, but either way I am going to have to bring things back if they don’t fit.  Last week I decided to place an order for him from LL Bean.  They offer free shipping and I can return his item if it doesn’t fit.  Lands’ End is even more convenient as I can do returns at the local Sears store instead of shipping things back to them if they don’t fit.

My local grocery store has stopped carrying many of the brands and specific items that I prefer.  It seems that I must choose the store brand or the giant economy size or nothing.  I have found that I can get some of the items that I want on or now that my local grocer doesn’t carry them.  Now I order my breakfast cookies, my favorite brand of iced tea, my dad’s Depends and a lot of other items online.  I also order dad’s over the counter medications as well as my own online as well.

It is easier for me to charge dad’s items to his account and my items to my account when I order online.  I have his Depends sent on a schedule as well as my breakfast items.  I order his OTC medications in a separate order from my own.  When I shop for dad in the grocery store, half the time I end up paying for his items out of my account as it is too confusing to check out twice with all the items mixed together in my one shopping cart.

Today I remembered that I had trouble getting Christmas stamps on time last year.  I hate to drive to the post office since it is always crowded and the parking lot is inconvenient to access.  I have come to depend on the US Post Office website – – to order stamps.  There is a small fee ($1.25) for delivery of all the stamps that I order at one time.

In addition, I hate to have to wait in line to ship my packages to my children and others.  I have learned to rely on both the US Post Office Website and also the UPS website to print out my shipping labels and arrange for pickup of my boxes. (I did have to invest in an inexpensive postal scale which I ordered from

I could also choose to print my own labels and prepare my boxes and then drop them off at the post office or one of the local package stores, Staples, Office Max or any other site that arranges for package delivery.

I will admit that I was reluctant to do online shipping at first.  It felt intimidating to print out actual labels and have the money billed to my credit card.  Suppose I made a mistake?  Would I spend money or messed up labels?  It turned out to be fairly simple.  Online shipping has an added advantage as well.  I keep an online address book both at the post office site and the shipping site.  Then if my family member has not moved since the last time, I can just click on the address and print the label.

I do keep a box of shipping labels on the shelf to simplify this procedure.  But, it isn’t really necessary to buy special labels.  You can use plain printing paper and just tape it onto the box to be shipped.  You have to use clear transparent tape to attach the plain paper label but then it works just as well.  I just like the convenience of the labels and I do a lot of shipping since my family is spread across the country.

About letstalkaboutfamily

I am a retired and was the primary caregiver for both my parents before they passed. I have children and grandchildren. This blog is an attempt to connect with other caregivers and share ideas and experiences. I hope you will let me know what worked for you if you had an experience similar to mine. The main issues I am going to talk about are elder care, death and dying, assisted living, family relationships and hoarders and hoarding. Other topics will come up as I address the issues and my relationship with other family members.
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7 Responses to Caregiving With Less Stress – Shopping and Shipping Online

  1. terry1954 says:

    i shop online also because Al was here, and I don’t like the crowds

    • Yes, you can shop online from home and be with family members who can’t be left alone. And you can beat the crowds which is especially nice on weekends and the day after Thanksgiving!

      • terry1954 says:

        oh definitely. When I was younger I loved Black Friday, but anymore, I don’t want pushed, trampled and involved!

      • Actually, i almost hate to admit it, but my daughters and I head out in mid afternoon on the Friday after Thanksgiving and buy for the children so their parents can take the gifts home in the car rather than having to ship them. Some of my children live out of state, but sometimes make it here for Thanksgiving weekend, so we make use of that time. By afternoon the rowds have thinned and we have a good time together since we are usually so far apart.

      • terry1954 says:

        well that is a good idea, going in the afternoon! I may try that!

  2. Kathy says:

    Last year I did 99% of my Christmas shopping online. I plan to do the same this year. We also have certain things, like paper towels and coffee, shipped to us on a schedule. That way we don’t run out.

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